2012

May

9

A valuable lesson from my gay friend

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I have a gay friend whom I have known since high school. He’s actually a good looking guy, but has always known he was gay. There was never any pretence on his part to liking girls even when we were in our early teens.

I’m glad I’ve kept in touch with him over the years. We call each other, we chat online, we exchange emails. We even visit each other when we can find the time despite his place being a good nine-hour drive from where I stay.

A couple of weeks ago, he paid me a visit and stayed in my apartment. We had wine and got to talking about our favourite topic – sex. He showed me a picture of his boyfriend of two years.

The guy was a real hunk and I said he deserved a hot woman like me.

It was a joke, but my gay friend said his man would never leave him for a girl because of what he could do in bed. That sounded like a challenge to me, so I asked him what he could do that I couldn’t at least match, if not do better.

“Gays give much better blow jobs than women,” he said, “much, much better.”

A blow job was a blow job, I said. He smiled at me and said, “that’s what you think, honey.”

My curiosity was piqued, to say the least. “So tell me what you can do that I can’t,” I told him.

He borrowed one of my dildos and said, “Watch.”

My eyes could have popped out of my skull when he showed me how deep he could swallow the sex toy. I would have gagged if I had taken a cock or a dildo that deep in my mouth. He was also performing what I can best describe as acrobatic tricks with his mouth and tongue.

After his graphic exhibition, my friend told me that he had studied some yoga breathing techniques.

I have to hand it to him. He really could do things that I never imagined myself doing. But after his private show for me, I can practice what he did. Not on my boyfriend. Not yet. Good thing I have some dildos which I can use.

When I’m good and ready, that lucky boyfriend of mine will get a blow job he will never forget.

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2012

May

7

Hot G Vibe for Better Erections

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So it used to be that sex toys, especially anal toys, are for female domain only. No respectable, wholesome guy won’t be caught dead using fancy toys on his member when in bed with a female partner, nor would he admit to the guys at the gym that he keeps prostate massagers and cock rings. But it is a different story now and lots of straight men are outright proclaiming that they use anal toys. Now if you want to try using these toys but yet leery of trying out those butt plugs and anal dildos, you can start things off with a nice cock ring for the meantime. May we recommend the Hot G Vibe vibrating cock ring, perhaps?

The Hot G Vibe cock ring allows you to kill two birds with one stone; the ring allows you to achieve better erections while the vibrator makes things more exciting for your partner. This works like the standard cock ring. You make yourself hard first then slip on the cock ring, making sure it fits perfectly. Do not wear cock rings the wrong way, it can have an effect on your erection and cause damage to the family jewels.

The good thing with Hot G Vibe is that you do not have to wear it at the base of your penis. It sits well just below your shaft, which makes it easy to take off as well. Because of this easy fit, you can put on more than one cock ring at the same time. So if you want more vibrations (although we seriously think the Hot G vibes are good enough) you can just slip on another cock ring.

Another good thing about this cock ring is that you can use it even if you are all alone and without a partner. The vibration makes it a good masturbator, so go right ahead and use it to your full advantage.

If you’re planning to use it your woman, make sure she’s comfortable with the vibrations. I’ve yet to meet a woman who will refuse a jolt of good, steady vibrations but there are women who are more comfortable with lighter vibes. You can use the cock ring to send vibrations to her clit as well; it’s just a matter of finding the right sex position for it.

 

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2012

May

2

An aid, not a substitute

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Some women can have serious problems with their partners who discover they own and use sex toys. The partners feel insulted that she would need a sex toy, when he is ready, willing and able to deliver what he believes she needs.

The most common question the guys ask is, “Am I not good enough?”

The reality is, he may not be. Not that there’s anything wrong with him or his tool. What a lot of men fail to understand is that there are plenty of very normal women out there who cannot have orgasms without the use of a sex toy such as a vibrator or dildo.

There’s no easy way to make them understand that it takes an awful lot to reach that heightened state that results in an orgasm. That’s why sex toys were invented in the first place.

In their early years, vibrators were referred to as marriage aids. Doctos and sex therapists recommended them for women who could not normally have orgasms through simple sex. Almost always, there was nothing physiologically wrong with the women. They just could not have orgasms because their ultra sensitive clitorises were not being properly handled.

The vibrators changed all that. With this toy, the percentage of women who could hit the Big O went through the roof. The reason is that the 3,000 revolutions per minute that the toys could deliver were sufficient to arouse users to the hilt. The result was that women had finally found something that assured them of getting there practically every time they used it. No finger, tongue or penis can ever produce the vibes that the toy can do with ease.

The best way to appease the doubting partners is to tell them that the vibrators are aids to mind-blowing sex that leads to mighty orgasms. In fact, letting the partner take part in their use is a good idea. Let him apply the toy to your vagina and clitoris. This gives him a sense of control, and he can use his body parts to arouse her even more.

Eventually, men who use vibrators on their women will want to try them out on themselves. When this happens, they will finally realize the value of the sex toy. It will be their “Aha!” moment, and they will never again doubt the value of the sex toy.

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2012

April

25

Stuff That Guys Hate in Bed

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Men are pretty much game to try lots of stuff in bed, but even the male kind has their limits. Believe it or not, there are stuff that can actually turn the guys off. If you aim to become a sex goddess, make sure to steer clear of the following:

 Wearing lingerie that is practically impossible to remove from you

Of course, your man wants to see you looking luscious in seductive lingerie. It’s never a wrong move to wear your best lingerie when seducing your man. However, you will suffer a setback if you wear lingerie pieces that will give him a hard time to strip you off. Unless your man insists on it, do not wear corsets that will take long minutes for him to remove. Men get frustrated when presented with something that has too many buttons and too tight for fast removal. If you want to pull the off the difficult lingerie look, do the removal yourself while you are strip-teasing for him. If you want to wear lingerie while having sex, make sure that it allows full access to your boobs and vagina.

Having drunk sex

There is no question that alcohol can get you in the mood really fast, but it won’t help your man if he drinks too much before getting it on. Majority of men have a hard time getting it up when sloshed with too much alcohol so if you want to get decent sex, limit his whisky intake. This goes for you too, because your man wouldn’t want to have sex if you are too drunk to enjoy what he is doing to you.

Putting stuff up his butt

Unless he is gay or bisexual, chances are your man wouldn’t like things shoved up his backdoor. Straight men are very protective of their anuses and wouldn’t respond so positively to requests to use dildos or vibrators up theirs. If he doesn’t want to hear the end of it, don’t force the issue.

Having threesome with another guy

Having threesomes is every man’s fantasy, but only if it involves having two girls in bed with him. It’s another thing to have another man in the scene. Most men would run for the hills if they saw another schlong in the bedroom.  So do not surprise him by inviting another guy in bed with you without his knowledge.

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2012

April

23

Making Him Last Longer for Oral Sex

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It can happen to any man: his partner is giving him a blowjob and suddenly, his penis limps out on him. Believe it or not, failure to maintain erection during blowjobs is a problem shared by many men. If you are the woman tasked with making him cum with your mouth and he suddenly become soft, what will you do?

A lot of women will think that when faced with this kind of situation, the fault is somehow with them. If you are in that position, you might ask yourself what the heck went wrong. Are you not turning him on enough? Are your oral skills not up to snuff? You couldn’t help but blame yourself for this, but really, most of the time it’s not your fault. There are many factors that affect a man’s ability to maintain erections. These factors include age, general fitness, and overall health condition. It could also be there’s something wrong with him physically. Unless you are not biting his penis off during oral sex, there are little chances that his softening has anything to do with you and your skills.

When this happens, you have to be sensitive enough to handle the situation well. Most men are very sensitive when it comes to their penises, and one unflattering remark can crush his ego. You may think this is silly, but men are just geared to think that way. When he softens up in the middle of fellatio, do not make a sarcastic remark or anything that will make him feel bad about his manhood. Instead, talk to him gently and do not force the issue. Maybe he just needs some rest before you can give it a go here.

If he insists that you can continue, you can start by asking him how he wants you to pleasure him. If your oral skills are inadequate, do not be afraid to experiment and get help from sex toys. There are lots of male sex toys to choose from, so for sure you can find something that can really turn him on. One great toy that you should try using on him is the Fleshlight. Considered as one of the best male sex toys in the planet, this masturbator mimics the look and feel of female orifices for that very realistic fuck. You can use this on his penis while giving him a blowjob or a handjob. Experiment with different strokes and speed to get the pace he wants. You can combine the Fleshlight with your oral maneuvers to give him the mighty orgasms he wants.

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2012

April

18

Who put out the fire?

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A woman – let’s call her Lisa – has what she considers a very serious problem with her love life, one that she thinks is unique.

After marrying her high school sweetheart Andy two years ago, the flaming hot sex that was the hallmark of their pre-married life has all but vanished. Andy and Lisa are now in their mid 20s.

Lisa is right when she says she has a serious problem, but she is wrong when she says her problem is unique. What’s happened to them is pretty common.

Lisa says she is still madly in love with Andy, and she is absolutely sure he is still crazy about her. He still buys her little gifts, relieves her of her housework as often as he can, and even sends her love notes via text messaging every day.

The couple still fuck three or four times a week. “But why has it become so…ordinary?” she asks.

What she sees as a serious problem may be caused by the fact that having sex has ceased to be an adventure. Since they are now husband and wife, there is no longer any need to sneak out and have sex.

Coming from a conservative family, Lisa refused to allow Andy to fuck her until they were in their early 20s. But when they finally had sex, it was as if a dam broke.

“I couldn’t get enough of him,” she says. “I sometimes felt like I had become some kind of sex maniac.”

But Andy was the only man she had sex with, and as they kept having sex, it kept getting better and better. On their wedding night, they had what Lisa remembers as the greatest sex ever. But then everything went downhill soon thereafter.

When asked if there were other changes in Andy, Lisa quickly pointed out that he had changed his appearance. The happy go lucky guy that she had always known had become no different from her dad. He cut his hair short, wore button down shirts to work with bland, dark neckties, and stopped playing his guitar.

“Like an old bible-belt Republican,” is how she described Andy.

When she initiated sex, Andy still performed but his willingness to experiment was no longer there. “Vanilla sex is all we had,” says Lisa.

It was not too long ago that a friend suggested she try a new tack. One a long weekend, she said she wanted to do something special with him, and he agreed.

Lisa booked a room where they had once had a night of incredible sex. She even managed to book the same room where they had the sensational experience. For good measure, she wore the same perfume and had her hair done the way it was those few years ago.

The result was stunning. The Andy of old suddenly reappeared. He was not only in an upbeat mood, but let down his hair and took her to a karaoke bar, where he serenaded her with songs from their past.

The sex they had that weekend was not just as good as the sex they had before they got married, it was better.

Since then, Andy has started to go back to his old ways in bed. And Lisa is one extra happy wife these days. One single act had revived the old fire, and it is burning white hot now.

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2012

April

16

Cock Rings Worth Checking Out

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It is no surprise that the cock ring is one of the most favored sex toys for men. Designed to control the blood flow of the penis during erection, it is a handy, convenient tool for making hard-ons last longer. Cock rings are small and easy to keep in one’s pocket, and costs less than other sex toys designed for men.

Now there are lots of cock rings in the market to choose from, and if you are a bit confused as to which to choose for your initial purchase, keep these following cock rings in mind when you go shopping.

 Double Penetrator Cock Ring

Using this is like hitting two birds with one stone. This toy is made of silicone and has a dildo attached, thus making it good for double penetration. So this means you can have pussy penetration and anal fun at the same time.

 His and Hers Rabbits Cock Ring

This is made up of a silicone ring attached with two vibrating rabbits. You can easily slide this over the penis even with the attachments. The toy can stimulate his testicles and her clitoris at the same time, courtesy of the rabbit ears attached.

Bong o Cock Ring

This vibrating ring is made of silicone with a gold ball attached to it. When in use, the ball can bounce over the man’s perineum and balls, which increases the man’s stimulation.

If you are an amateur, don’t be in a rush to try those advanced and tricky-looking cock rings that you see in shops. It’s advisable to start with the basic cock rings first before you move on to the fancy stuff. You can get a simple metal ring as a practice toy. Once you get the hang of it, you can safely move on to the more adventurous variety of cock rings.

When using cock rings, don’t forget to practice safety while you are at it. Cock rings should not be kept on for too long or worn too tight; these can cause injury or damage to the penis. Make sure you wear a cock ring the right way. Wearing it the wrong way can cause stress on the penis and the testicles.

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2012

April

11

Tips on condom use

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There will be many times in a couple’s life when the man will have to use a condom when they fuck. It can be used to prevent pregnancy, or when she is menstruating. For women who have new sex partners, using a condom is advisable if she is not sure about her man’s sexual history.

It’s better to be safe than sorry. He may have a sexually transmitted disease, among other dangers.

During the times when condom use is necessary, the couple can let it add to their bedtime fun, rather than detract from it.

Instead of the man putting one on, the woman can do the job. From tearing the condom pack to pulling it all the way down his erect cock, the woman can make the moves totally sexy, completely erotic.

There are flavored condoms available. The reason for the added taste (and scent) should be obvious. She can give him a blow job even when he’s already wearing the protection. Some will say this is kinky, we say it’s sexy.

Husbands and wives know that the condom can act as a sex toy. One trick is to add a little lube inside the condom as this can increase his pleasure. But the amount of lubricant should be controlled. Too much could cause the condom to slip out at the worst possible moment.

If the purpose of its use was to prevent pregnancy, that purpose is defeated if the rubber slips out while he is still inside her.

It goes without saying that lubes should be used when using an unlubricated condom, but these are pretty rare now. But some women may enjoy adding lubes, especially those that get warm when used.

Silly as it seems, condoms are not only used on the erect penis. Women can use it on their dildos if the sex toy is not slippery enough and she does not have any lube available.

As a bit of trivia, did you know that American soldiers are equipped with condoms when they are in the battlefield? No, they are not expected to fuck anyone while a firefight is going on, but the condoms are used to cover the barrels of their rifles to prevent the entry of sand or water.

GIs who have returned from a tour of duty in Afghanistan or Iraq can attest to the effectivity of condoms to help keep their guns in tiptop condition, ready for battle against the bad guys.

Yet another use for condoms is to inflate them and use them as balloons for parties. Remember that condoms have expiration dates. Those that have already lapsed should not be used for sex, as they are already ineffective. But using them as balloons? Sounds like a good idea to us!

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March

21

The Fleshlight Girls Stoya – Lotus

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When a product comes out seemingly from nowhere and becomes an incredible hit, what can consumers expect?

The first buyers may have the bragging rights of owning something everybody else wants, but those who chose to wait may be rewarded with a second generation version that is a little bit better than the original.

The iPad is a classic example. The first edition of the Apple tablet was an amazing product, but the iPad2 was even better. For one thing, the second version had a built-in camera, which the original did not have.

In the world of men’s sex toys, the Fleshlight is earning the reputation as a great pleasure giver that only gets better with each new version.

The Fleshlight Girls Stoya – Lotus is one of the new models of what is now the world’s best seller among men’s sex toys. Different Fleshlights have different features and this one has some of the most outstanding.

The entry is smooth and tight with the texture being exactly like the vagina of a young woman. Since the head of the penis has about 4,000 nerve endings, the inside of this Fleshlight was designed to titillate that most sensitive part of the man.

Four pleasure chambers provide ever increasing delights the deeper one’s cock enters.

This model does not have a built-in vibrator unlike some Fleshlights. This should not be considered a disadvantage. Quite the contrary, he textures provided by the inside of the sleeve are a surefire means to attain blissful orgasms for the user.

Want to turn this realistic pussy into a realistic hot pussy? Simply immerse in hot water and voila! The Fleshlight Girls Stoya is now one hot vagina waiting to be penetrated by a rock hard prick.

This Fleshlight is priced at $59.15, making it one of the higher priced models. Again, like any consumer product such as cell phones or cameras or sound systems, a higher price means more features although some might not be so obvious.

While there are no official ratings with set standards for sex toys, the Fleshlight would undoubtedly receive the highest ratings. Consider it the crème de la crème of men’s sex toys.

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2012

March

19

A woman finds her true calling

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At the ripe young age of 40, a woman named Linda found her true self, thanks to a sex toy.

Linda had been twice divorced and found herself without a sex partner for the first time in nearly two decades. She had always liked sex, but couldn’t say the same thing about the men she had known.

Besides her two past husbands, Linda estimates that she has had about half a dozen serious lovers. She always found something seriously wrong with every one of her past lovers.

“I like the incredible feeling of having a rock hard cock inside me, but damn if I ever really loved any of my men,” she says.

Linda says she took time out to assess her life when she turned 40, and one of the things she asked herself was something she previously considered unthinkable: “Could I be a lesbian?”

While she had never had a lesbian encounter, Linda admitted to herself that she found sexy women very desirable. But she also could not drop the fact that she always longed for a hard cock inside her. That was when fate stepped in.

While window shopping at a mall, she met an attractive woman named Sue who was slightly younger than her and who was also a divorcee. They found that they had many things in common, including a love for cats, modern art and Thai cuisine.

Linda and Sue became fast friends and it wasn’t long before they were visiting each other’s homes. In one long talk they had at Sue’s apartment, Linda told her new best friend about her ambiguity about her sexuality.

Sue took Linda by the hand and led her to the bedroom. No, no, no, I am not a lesbian, Linda wanted to say. But she found herself mesmerized at the thought of what was about to happen.

“I like a cock inside my pussy too,” said Sue as she stripped Linda naked. She excused herself and told Linda to sit on the bed. Sue was gone for less than a minute, and when she came back she was also naked except for a strap on dildo that she was wearing.

“Oh my God!” Linda exclaimed.

“Suck,” Sue ordered, and Linda found herself sucking the dildo. It was, for her, a surprisingly erotic experience.

After some foreplay, Sue told Linda to assume the Doggy position. The 40-year-old did not hesitate. She found herself moaning like she had never done before. Linda had one of the greatest orgasms in her life.

“I guess it’s official. I’m a lesbian,” she told herself. Linda asked Sue to take off the strap on because she wanted to fuck her friend. Sue obliged. She, too, had an exceptional orgasm.

“Life really  does begin at 40,” says Linda, who now fully accepts what she is.

Being a lesbian is better than she thought it would be. Sue and Linda are now planning on living together. Happily ever after, they both hope.

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